In this insightful episode of Regulated & Relational, hosts Ginger Healy and Julie Beem are joined by Ce Eshelman, LMFT—an expert in attachment, trauma, and therapeutic parenting.
With decades of experience as a therapist and adoptive parent, Ce brings both professional depth and personal understanding to this rich conversation.
Together, we explore the foundations of therapeutic caregiving, how trauma impacts a child's behaviors and relationships, and what caregivers, educators, and clinicians can do to better support healing. Whether you're a parent, therapist, or simply someone passionate about trauma-informed care, this episode is filled with wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools for supporting children from hard places.
What therapeutic parenting really means—and why it works
Common misconceptions about children with trauma histories
How traditional parenting approaches can fall short for these children
Practical ways professionals and extended family can support adoptive and foster families
Words of wisdom for overwhelmed caregivers—and why there is always hope
Ce Eshelman, LMFT is the founder of The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships in Sacramento, CA. A passionate advocate for children from difficult beginnings, Ce is the creator of the Love Matters Parenting Program and author of two powerful books (links below). With over 35 years of clinical experience and lived expertise as an adoptive mom, Ce has helped countless families build connection, resilience, and healing.
Love Matters Parenting Program – Learn More
Drowning with My Hair on Fire: Insanity Relief for Adoptive Parents
20 Things Children from Difficult Beginnings Wish Friends and Family Knew
