On today's episode: "Without fail, the children get stuck in their present circumstance of how upset they are that they didn’t get what they wanted. They project that upset toward me as a mean and heartless Mommy who takes everything away and always says no. The no is so big that they forget about all the times I did say yes. Sometimes even that very afternoon. Sometimes the no is for something they really, really wanted. Like going to the birthday party or buying the toy that they’ve been pining after for some time. Can you see where I’m going with this?"