In this episode of Recipe to the Road podcast, my partner Tom and I continue our chat about travelling with someone. We discuss the importance of knowing your own boundaries and comfort levels, being honest with each other about any issues that might arise and run through some pros and cons of travelling with someone.
Knowing yourself
We talk about how, while travelling, you need to be in tune with yourself, understand your need for alone time and be aware of your social battery levels. We discuss the potential consequences of not recognizing these limits, such as irritability, depression, or taking out frustrations on others.
Couple time when travelling
Tom and I stay in a mix of AirBnBs and hostels so this means we often have time to spend together as a couple. Usually our chill time is spent together as we watch a lot of the same TV shows or might play music together. Every now and again we will get a bit dressed up to go out for dinner together too.
Pros and cons of travelling with someone else
We discuss some of our pros and cons of travelling together rather than solo.
Pros of travelling with someone else:
I feel safer travelling with Tom, especially in positions where men are making me feel uncomfortable
It's nice to have someone to share new experiences and memories with
You have a support system if you’re feeling homesick or receive some bad news
If one of you is burned out the other one can step up and take care of planning or other admin things for a while
Often you can get a private room or apartment for cheaper than two dorm beds so we usually get private rooms
Cons of travelling with someone else:
Solo travelling can be an opportunity for personal growth- you may not get that same level of growth while travelling with someone
You are each others entire support system
If you don’t communicate sufficiently you might burn each other out more
Not staying in dorms as much might mean you don’t make as many friends in hostels
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