When you get angry at something happening to you, it’s always because of something happening inside you. Anger isn’t a sin. It’s just a sign. It’s a sign that one of your hopes and dreams is being threatened. There are three specific hopes and dreams that we all have. We want: 1. Security: (physical, financial, emotionally) 2. Connection: (relationships, feeling valued and accepted) 3. Control: (feeling empowered to make choices and have options) We get angry when we feel one of those three is being threatened.