Welcome to Reality Check! In this episode we will be discussing the relationships in the TV show Gilmore Girls and how they relate to real-life dynamics. We will explore the patterns of back-and-forth in Lorelai's relationships and how it may have influenced Rory's behavior. We will also discuss the impact of Lorelai's parents' relationship on her own relationships. The conversation touches on themes of control, vulnerability, and the need for emotional safety. We also discuss Rory's current state of limbo and her avoidance of conflict. Finally, we discuss the dynamics between Lorelai and Emily and the potential benefits and challenges of them going to therapy together.