Real Talk For Real Teachers By Conscious Discipline
Conscious Discipline
86 episodes
9 months ago
Dr. Valerie Parker is an educator, administrator, parent and wife, and serves as the Education Committee Chair for the Howard County Branch of the NAACP. She’s a self-proclaimed “fierce advocate for black boys everywhere,” and her research focuses on teacher perception of behavior that leads to student misconstruction. Dr. Parker firmly believes that changes in our perception can help address much larger, systemic issues: particularly the school to prison pipeline.
Essential Takeaways:
• Changes in perception can positively address and affect systemic problems.
• Self-regulation and building relationships with black youth isn’t optional, it’s crucial.
• Identifying your own implicit biases and triggers is essential to stopping the school to prison pipeline.
Important Links:
• Seven Powers: Powers of Perception: https://consciousdiscipline.com/seven-powers-power-of-perception/
• Four Elements of Connection: https://consciousdiscipline.com/resources/four-elements-of-connection/
Related Resources:
• Conscious Discipline with Excellence 2023: We Run This Shift: Ways Conscious Discipline Helps Circumvent the School to Prison Pipeline with Dr. Valerie Parker Available to Premium Resources Members only: https://consciousdiscipline.com/resources/we-run-this-shift-ways-conscious-discipline-helps-circumvent-the-school-to-prison-pipeline/
• Handling Upset: The Adult-First Mindset Shift: https://consciousdiscipline.com/product/team-registration-handling-upset-the-adult-first-mindset-shift/
Show Outline:
:00 Introduction
1:30 Becoming creative and curious about seeing behavior as communication.
3:00 Introduction to Dr. Valerie Parker
4:50 The school to prison pipeline
8:12 Implicit bias, ADHD, and autism
13:00 Big feelings, wishing well and what isolation teaches others
13:45 Building relationships
15:40 Autonomy, choices, and assertiveness
19:42 Calming strategies to inspire a love for learning
21:00 Being curious instead of judgmental
22:00 The Power of Perception
23:00 Helping teachers shift their perception
23:52 Identifying your own bias and triggers
25:32 How do I contribute to the school to prison pipeline?
27:51 Mindful moments for dysregulated students
30:52 Why Conscious Discipline matters
31:07 Changing the trajectory of the lives of adults and children
32:23 Self-regulation and building relationships for black boys isn’t optional, its crucial
33:45 Takeaways
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Dr. Valerie Parker is an educator, administrator, parent and wife, and serves as the Education Committee Chair for the Howard County Branch of the NAACP. She’s a self-proclaimed “fierce advocate for black boys everywhere,” and her research focuses on teacher perception of behavior that leads to student misconstruction. Dr. Parker firmly believes that changes in our perception can help address much larger, systemic issues: particularly the school to prison pipeline.
Essential Takeaways:
• Changes in perception can positively address and affect systemic problems.
• Self-regulation and building relationships with black youth isn’t optional, it’s crucial.
• Identifying your own implicit biases and triggers is essential to stopping the school to prison pipeline.
Important Links:
• Seven Powers: Powers of Perception: https://consciousdiscipline.com/seven-powers-power-of-perception/
• Four Elements of Connection: https://consciousdiscipline.com/resources/four-elements-of-connection/
Related Resources:
• Conscious Discipline with Excellence 2023: We Run This Shift: Ways Conscious Discipline Helps Circumvent the School to Prison Pipeline with Dr. Valerie Parker Available to Premium Resources Members only: https://consciousdiscipline.com/resources/we-run-this-shift-ways-conscious-discipline-helps-circumvent-the-school-to-prison-pipeline/
• Handling Upset: The Adult-First Mindset Shift: https://consciousdiscipline.com/product/team-registration-handling-upset-the-adult-first-mindset-shift/
Show Outline:
:00 Introduction
1:30 Becoming creative and curious about seeing behavior as communication.
3:00 Introduction to Dr. Valerie Parker
4:50 The school to prison pipeline
8:12 Implicit bias, ADHD, and autism
13:00 Big feelings, wishing well and what isolation teaches others
13:45 Building relationships
15:40 Autonomy, choices, and assertiveness
19:42 Calming strategies to inspire a love for learning
21:00 Being curious instead of judgmental
22:00 The Power of Perception
23:00 Helping teachers shift their perception
23:52 Identifying your own bias and triggers
25:32 How do I contribute to the school to prison pipeline?
27:51 Mindful moments for dysregulated students
30:52 Why Conscious Discipline matters
31:07 Changing the trajectory of the lives of adults and children
32:23 Self-regulation and building relationships for black boys isn’t optional, its crucial
33:45 Takeaways
Thank you for Listening!
Thank you for choosing to spend your precious time with us today. If you enjoyed this episode, please share its valuable information with others via your favorite social media platforms.
How To Handle Vaccines And Other Medical Procedures
Real Talk For Real Teachers By Conscious Discipline
18 minutes 16 seconds
3 years ago
How To Handle Vaccines And Other Medical Procedures
With the holidays fast approaching, many families will choose to vaccinate their children for the flu or Covid. Certified Instructor Amy Speidel joins us for a special Real Talk to help adults create a positive experience for children undergoing medical procedures like vaccines this season.
The way we approach children’s medical procedures establishes a mental and emotional blueprint children will utilize for the rest of their lives. In order to help create healthy blueprints, we must replace “get a treat if you’re good” and “surprise” approaches with emotionally-sound strategies that promote safety and connection.
Discover the importance of managing your own feelings surrounding medical procedures, and then learn how to 1. Prepare (plan and practice), 2. Put your plan into action, 3. Soothe in the moment and 4. Manage loopholes utilizing reliable strategies from Conscious Discipline.
Essential Takeaways
• Medical procedures can be scary for children and adults alike.
• Calm yourself first and redefine a “successful” experience as the best possible outcome considering the circumstances.
• Prepare with planning and practice, put your plan into action, soothe in the moment and manage any loopholes assertively.
Important Links
• ConsciousDiscipline.com (https://consciousdiscipline.com/)
• Managing Emotional Mayhem (https://consciousdiscipline.com/product/managing-emotional-mayhem/)
• The Feeling Buddies (https://consciousdiscipline.com/store-category/feeling-buddies/)
• Understanding Trauma Webinar (https://consciousdiscipline.com/product/understanding-trauma-webinar-series-individual-1-year/)
• Conscious Discipline Events ( https://consciousdiscipline.com/professional-development/events/)
Product Mentions
• Master Instructor Amy Speidel (https://consciousdiscipline.com/professional-development/instructors/amy-speidel/)
• Conscious Discipline for Students with ASD (https://consciousdiscipline.com/professional-development/event/conscious-discipline-sel-for-students-with-autism-spectrum-disorder/)
• Conscious Discipline core (gifts for peers) (https://consciousdiscipline.com/store-category/conscious-discipline-core/)
• Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline (gift for parents) (https://consciousdiscipline.com/product/easy-to-love-difficult-to-discipline/)
• Conscious Discipline best sellers (gifts for all) (https://consciousdiscipline.com/store-category/most-popular/)
• Shubert and Sophie books (https://consciousdiscipline.com/store-category/shubert-and-sophie/)
• Jaden the Germ-Blasting Superhero (https://consciousdiscipline.com/product/jaden-bear/)
• Bailey Bear (https://consciousdiscipline.com/product/bailey-bear/)
Show Outline
:00 Introduction
:33 A special episode
1:50 Hello from Amy
2:00 Conscious Discipline introduction
2:20 Our approach drives children’s experience
2:30 Be aware of our feelings and self-regulate
3:42 “Success” can be messy
4:21 Part 1: Preparation
4:37 Information soothes anxiety
5:00 Plan and practice
6:45 Use pictures to convey your plan
7:47 Practice your plan
8:08 Let them know it will feel like a pinch
9:05 End your plan with a celebration
10:06 Part 2: Show up and put the plan into action
10:34 Part 3: What to do when you get there (breathe, soothe, encourage)
12:25 Part 4: Handling perceived loopholes
13:33 “Breathe and breathe and breathe some more”
13:50 Conclusion: It was hard and we did it!
14:16 You are your child’s advocate and the voice in their heads, and you’ve got this
14:48 Review the strategies
15:39 A real-life experience
16:53 What are Conscious Discipline and Dr. Bailey up to?
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Real Talk For Real Teachers By Conscious Discipline
Dr. Valerie Parker is an educator, administrator, parent and wife, and serves as the Education Committee Chair for the Howard County Branch of the NAACP. She’s a self-proclaimed “fierce advocate for black boys everywhere,” and her research focuses on teacher perception of behavior that leads to student misconstruction. Dr. Parker firmly believes that changes in our perception can help address much larger, systemic issues: particularly the school to prison pipeline.
Essential Takeaways:
• Changes in perception can positively address and affect systemic problems.
• Self-regulation and building relationships with black youth isn’t optional, it’s crucial.
• Identifying your own implicit biases and triggers is essential to stopping the school to prison pipeline.
Important Links:
• Seven Powers: Powers of Perception: https://consciousdiscipline.com/seven-powers-power-of-perception/
• Four Elements of Connection: https://consciousdiscipline.com/resources/four-elements-of-connection/
Related Resources:
• Conscious Discipline with Excellence 2023: We Run This Shift: Ways Conscious Discipline Helps Circumvent the School to Prison Pipeline with Dr. Valerie Parker Available to Premium Resources Members only: https://consciousdiscipline.com/resources/we-run-this-shift-ways-conscious-discipline-helps-circumvent-the-school-to-prison-pipeline/
• Handling Upset: The Adult-First Mindset Shift: https://consciousdiscipline.com/product/team-registration-handling-upset-the-adult-first-mindset-shift/
Show Outline:
:00 Introduction
1:30 Becoming creative and curious about seeing behavior as communication.
3:00 Introduction to Dr. Valerie Parker
4:50 The school to prison pipeline
8:12 Implicit bias, ADHD, and autism
13:00 Big feelings, wishing well and what isolation teaches others
13:45 Building relationships
15:40 Autonomy, choices, and assertiveness
19:42 Calming strategies to inspire a love for learning
21:00 Being curious instead of judgmental
22:00 The Power of Perception
23:00 Helping teachers shift their perception
23:52 Identifying your own bias and triggers
25:32 How do I contribute to the school to prison pipeline?
27:51 Mindful moments for dysregulated students
30:52 Why Conscious Discipline matters
31:07 Changing the trajectory of the lives of adults and children
32:23 Self-regulation and building relationships for black boys isn’t optional, its crucial
33:45 Takeaways
Thank you for Listening!
Thank you for choosing to spend your precious time with us today. If you enjoyed this episode, please share its valuable information with others via your favorite social media platforms.
