It all starts from you telling your son to beat his sister if he annoys him It all starts from you saying to your daughter after the brother beats her up WHAT DID YOU DO.. this should stop, we are talking about grooming the male child to understand love differently, You hear some mothers say , if your sister disrespect you beat her let her shut her mouth and today we have full blown monsters Who don’t only beat but murder their wives and husbands The mentality has to change, parenting patter. Has to stop. Some of grand parents got it wrong Some of our parents got it wrong We don’t have to make the same mistakes. A message from pastor paul eneche on the death of the popular ekueme singer that died over the week. This is a big blow on alot of us It is a big blow most especially on her family. I saw a video of the mother crying bitterly. My pain is all this could have been avoided if she left that marriage . Pls stop stigmatizing women who come out of abusive relationships, a friend of mine told me BLESSING I have lost all my friends because to them I am single, so that I wont snatxh their husband, they dont even allow me visit unlike when I was with my husband.. imagine the mentally of some people.. This particular lady had to leave the marriage when this man almost took her life by throwing her from upstairs. She kept praying and saying maybe he will change . Instead it got worst. But today she is single and happy, in her own words Blessing I dont wake up with fear anymore. If you are an abusive husband I need to let you know you failed as a person, how can't you see you are doing alot of damage to a human being Get help get help, Madam please tou dont have to die in an abusive marriage to show you are a virtuous woman, I know alot of women are held ransom because the man knows he holds the money the funds so where can she go, when she cant even pay for her a bowl of food in a restaurant. That is why we have come up with a team to get support for women who are in abusive relationships. We have free accommodations until the lady settles down. We are a team of builders who are building.g a better world to live in. Alot of these men have mental issues, bipolar, narcissism and lots more But because those mental disorders doesn't show on faces , you see a cute looking guy smiling, but when u end up with him he will drive you to a point of suicide or depression. Alot of abused women feel weak, vulnerable, not only their body is abused their mind is also abused , listen to this ways a person can be abused mentally, because some women sent messages and said they dont know if they are being abused, I am glad I saw some pastors condemning this wicked act. The worst part is this domestic violence does not stop with the wife , it extends to the children because alot grow to be like their fathers , some dont but it's more of the majority. Alot of people has lunacy tendencies, if you check their family history you see they had mad people and all that. Mothers protect your children from future damage, if you need help you can reach out to me on my Instagram, Facebook, tiktok even on my website www.purposefulvoice.com . Please don't die in silence.