A woman contacted me She is in her late 40s almost 50 She is doing her masters program in one of the nigerian universities.. she is married with 4 kids ... 3 boys and a girl So she said she was on her way to get some groceries and her car suddenly started jerking and before you know it the car had stopped... We all know alot of women dont know much about automobile... She had to dail her husband's number, he wasn't picking and unfortunately it started raining so there was no way to come down and start ask6for help, but she kept calling her husband, eventually he picked. And in her words she said the first thing he said was WHAT IS IT ? She now explained to him that she was stranded and its raining heavily... and the man's response was Ehen what should I do about that, madam pls dont disturb me I am busy.. when this woman was sharing her story it took me down memory lane on the day I had an accident, and I messaged my husband, guess what he read the message and never replied.. I really don't know if some of us married humans ... Anyway back to the story, she said she called him HONEY!! to be sure she is talking to the right person... the man response was like someone sliced her into two.. she said he hung up and in that car she wept , she said blessing I cried liked I was at my own funeral... Guys when this woman spoke to me I cried so much that I had emotional eruptions for days.... The things women go through in toxic relationships and marriages will shock even the devil, I am still asking DO MEN HATE THEIR WIVES? Why make her suffer emotionally.. Anyway she said she called one of her classmates and told him she was stranded as her car stopped on the road . This was his response, oh so sorry about that, hope you are safe where the car stopped? And she told him it was safe, the guy now asked her to send her location, and in 30 minutes the guy arrived under the rain with his mechanic... he stood under the rain with the mechanic, it took them some hrs to get the car fix. The guy left and got her food and drinks cos she said she cant follow him .... Ladies and gentlemen the man who wasn't married to this woman became her prince in shining armor ... She got home and the husband didnt even ask her what happened and how she got back.. she said all he asked was this one u are coming this time Hope the food will be ready on time, so she said the guy that helped her called to ask if she was home and she Yes and thanked him for his help.... She said but from that day she feel in love with the guy, and the guy was also very caring.. and gradually they became close and glam they became lovers.. she said blessing the guy is HEAVEN ON EARTH, she was happy , she was always smiling and she said her son's were like mummy u are so cheerful these days. And she told them she found JOY.. so now here is the problem the husband died of liver cancer he was a heavy drinker (a delta man) if you know nigerian delta men majority are really heavy drinkers ... so that her prince charming wants them to get married, so she was asking me is it too soon to get married ? This woman shared her story with trust that she will remain anonymous... and she shared so many bad memories and I have to tell you this LEAVE HER ALONE SHE DESERVES THIS... So my humble audience drop your thoughts on this matter Should she marry the man who she feels came to her rescue... or stay as a widow or she should give the dead some time to chill