I created this podcast to help smart, successful women like you finally get everything you want in love—and in life—by turning your attention inward, where real transformation begins. Because the truth is: when you change, everything does.
This isn’t another podcast about how to “fix yourself” to be chosen. It’s about becoming so whole, grounded, and self-led that you choose what—and who—gets to be in your life.
As a former psychotherapist turned truth-teller and life disrupter, I’m not here to play nice or give you tips you could find on TikTok.
This is your space for bold insights, paradigm shifts, and the straight-up truth about what it really takes to attract love, feel fulfilled, and live YOUR OWN very best life.
You’re not here to settle. You’re here because you’re ready for love—and everything else you deserve.
New episodes drop every Friday on all podcast platforms and YouTube.
All content for Ready For Love with Hilary Silver is the property of Cloud10 and is served directly from their servers
with no modification, redirects, or rehosting. The podcast is not affiliated with or endorsed by Podjoint in any way.
I created this podcast to help smart, successful women like you finally get everything you want in love—and in life—by turning your attention inward, where real transformation begins. Because the truth is: when you change, everything does.
This isn’t another podcast about how to “fix yourself” to be chosen. It’s about becoming so whole, grounded, and self-led that you choose what—and who—gets to be in your life.
As a former psychotherapist turned truth-teller and life disrupter, I’m not here to play nice or give you tips you could find on TikTok.
This is your space for bold insights, paradigm shifts, and the straight-up truth about what it really takes to attract love, feel fulfilled, and live YOUR OWN very best life.
You’re not here to settle. You’re here because you’re ready for love—and everything else you deserve.
New episodes drop every Friday on all podcast platforms and YouTube.
#85: The Worst Dating Advice for Women...And Yes, I’m Mad About It!
Ready For Love with Hilary Silver
12 minutes
1 month ago
#85: The Worst Dating Advice for Women...And Yes, I’m Mad About It!
Ever seen those videos promising to “make him obsessed with you in 5 texts” or “7 tricks to make a man worship you like a queen”? Yeah… Hilary’s not having it.
This week, she’s calling BS on the toxic, clickbait dating advice flooding YouTube. From “dark psychology” tactics to straight-up patriarchal conditioning, this advice is designed to manipulate women, keep them second-guessing themselves, and—let’s be honest—get them to buy something.
Hilary breaks down four reasons why these tactics are not just wrong but harmful—and why they’ll never lead to real love. Instead, she gives you the only dating advice you’ll ever need: trust yourself. When you stop twisting yourself into a pretzel to please men, you stop attracting the wrong ones and start naturally attracting the right one.
If you’re tired of playing games and ready to finally show up as the woman you actually are (and be loved for it), this episode is your wake-up call.
Episode Highlights:
Why “clickbait” dating advice is built on manipulation, not empowerment
The four major problems with toxic, prescriptive dating tactics
How inauthenticity sabotages real connection (and yourself in the process)
Why advice centered on him keeps women stuck in patriarchal conditioning
The simple, powerful truth: trusting yourself is the only dating advice you’ll ever need
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 The Worst Dating Advice for Women
01:39 Dark Psychology Tactics in Dating Advice
03:05 How Manipulation Backfires in Relationships
04:20 Prescriptive Advice vs. Trusting Yourself
05:14 Why Man-Centered Dating Advice Hurts Women
06:08 The Only Dating Advice You’ll Ever Need
06:39 Ready for Love’s Authentic Approach
✨ I’m Hilary Silver, LCSW, former psychotherapist turned master coach and founder of Ready for Love. I help high-achieving women show up in love as confidently as they do in their careers.
💡 Through this podcast, I share my WOMAN-centered, SELF-centered approach—time-tested methods that blend psychology, brain science, relationship skills, and no-BS dating advice.
🎙️ Since 2017, we’ve helped over 10,000 women with a 98% success rate, making Ready for Love the #1 program in the world for women who’ve tried everything else.
✨ Ready to stop repeating the same patterns and finally create the love you deserve?
Watch my free masterclass to learn the proven 4-step Ready for Love Method: https://readyforloveinc.com/masterclass
Apply for a free Love Breakthrough Call with my team: https://readyforloveinc.com/apply
Ready For Love with Hilary Silver
I created this podcast to help smart, successful women like you finally get everything you want in love—and in life—by turning your attention inward, where real transformation begins. Because the truth is: when you change, everything does.
This isn’t another podcast about how to “fix yourself” to be chosen. It’s about becoming so whole, grounded, and self-led that you choose what—and who—gets to be in your life.
As a former psychotherapist turned truth-teller and life disrupter, I’m not here to play nice or give you tips you could find on TikTok.
This is your space for bold insights, paradigm shifts, and the straight-up truth about what it really takes to attract love, feel fulfilled, and live YOUR OWN very best life.
You’re not here to settle. You’re here because you’re ready for love—and everything else you deserve.
New episodes drop every Friday on all podcast platforms and YouTube.