I created this podcast to help smart, successful women like you finally get everything you want in love—and in life—by turning your attention inward, where real transformation begins. Because the truth is: when you change, everything does.
This isn’t another podcast about how to “fix yourself” to be chosen. It’s about becoming so whole, grounded, and self-led that you choose what—and who—gets to be in your life.
As a former psychotherapist turned truth-teller and life disrupter, I’m not here to play nice or give you tips you could find on TikTok.
This is your space for bold insights, paradigm shifts, and the straight-up truth about what it really takes to attract love, feel fulfilled, and live YOUR OWN very best life.
You’re not here to settle. You’re here because you’re ready for love—and everything else you deserve.
New episodes drop every Friday on all podcast platforms and YouTube.
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I created this podcast to help smart, successful women like you finally get everything you want in love—and in life—by turning your attention inward, where real transformation begins. Because the truth is: when you change, everything does.
This isn’t another podcast about how to “fix yourself” to be chosen. It’s about becoming so whole, grounded, and self-led that you choose what—and who—gets to be in your life.
As a former psychotherapist turned truth-teller and life disrupter, I’m not here to play nice or give you tips you could find on TikTok.
This is your space for bold insights, paradigm shifts, and the straight-up truth about what it really takes to attract love, feel fulfilled, and live YOUR OWN very best life.
You’re not here to settle. You’re here because you’re ready for love—and everything else you deserve.
New episodes drop every Friday on all podcast platforms and YouTube.
You’ve got your life together: thriving career, financial independence, emotional intelligence, and yet your love life? A hot mess of emotionally unavailable, underemployed, or unstable men. What gives?
In this episode, Hilary calls it like it is: this pattern isn’t about the men. It’s about you. More specifically, your subconscious beliefs, unresolved self-worth issues, and fear of real intimacy.
Hilary breaks down 7 brutally honest reasons smart, successful women keep dating down—and how to stop. From choosing men who need you so they won’t leave, to settling for “projects” instead of partners, she gets to the root of why high-achieving women sabotage their own love lives.
Episode Highlights:
Why you freeze (or flee) when a high-quality man actually shows up
How caretaking can be a way of earning love when you don’t believe you’re enough
The hidden fears that drive you to choose men who feel “safe” but drain you
Why identity work, not another dating strategy, is the real key to change
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Why Smart Women Keep Dating Down
01:25 What “Dating Down” Really Means
03:10 Reason #1: Feeling Not Good Enough
05:06 Reason #2: Tying Your Worth to Being Needed
07:03 Reason #3: Fear of Abandonment
10:15 Reason #5: Fear of Real Intimacy
14:29 Reason #7: Dating from Loneliness
16:03 How to Break the Pattern for Good
Hilary doesn’t just name the problem, she offers the way out. Because when you stop outsourcing your worth, everything shifts.
Want the kind of love that matches the rest of your success? Start by becoming the version of you who actually believes she deserves it.
🔗 Learn more about Hilary’s Ready for Love program: http://hilarysilver.com/apply
Ready For Love with Hilary Silver
I created this podcast to help smart, successful women like you finally get everything you want in love—and in life—by turning your attention inward, where real transformation begins. Because the truth is: when you change, everything does.
This isn’t another podcast about how to “fix yourself” to be chosen. It’s about becoming so whole, grounded, and self-led that you choose what—and who—gets to be in your life.
As a former psychotherapist turned truth-teller and life disrupter, I’m not here to play nice or give you tips you could find on TikTok.
This is your space for bold insights, paradigm shifts, and the straight-up truth about what it really takes to attract love, feel fulfilled, and live YOUR OWN very best life.
You’re not here to settle. You’re here because you’re ready for love—and everything else you deserve.
New episodes drop every Friday on all podcast platforms and YouTube.
