Have you ever been somewhere you didn’t really feel like you belonged? Maybe you traveled to a foreign country? Got to go backstage at a concert? Found yourself under-dressed for a formal event? Who you’re with matters. If you’re in a foreign country and you don’t know the language… You stick with the tour guide. If someone takes you backstage at a big concert, you don’t try to get past the bouncers unless you’re with the person who has the authority to get you back there. Today I hope y...