What if ambition no longer looked like climbing a ladder—but learning to breathe? How do you lead without performing? And is it possible to succeed without playing by outdated rules?
In this powerful conversation, we unpack the emotional complexity behind the “girl boss” identity and why so many women—especially in Asia—are quietly rewriting the script on ambition, success, and leadership. From corporate burnout to finding your authentic voice, this episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and redefine what enough looks like on your terms.
Whether you're navigating internal pressure, cultural expectations, or the fear of being “too much” or “not enough,” these insights will help you come home to yourself—and lead from there.
Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:
[00:00] Dismantling the “Girl Boss” Identity
[03:12] Burnout Behind the Mask of Success
[06:01] How Do We Focus On The Being Rather Than The Doing?
[07:36] What Is My Definition Of a Rich Life?
[09:01] Know Your Worth
[11:13] How Often Your Should Update Big Life Questions
[14:33] Do You Feel Comfortable Saying: “I Don’t Know”?
[15:39] Understanding Your Gifts
[18:55] Biggest Challenge In Being The Girl Boss
[22:19] Introducing Olivia
[27:07] Standing Out As A Girl Boss
[30:02] Feminine Energy
[36:40] Final Reflections
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