So here’s the truth: you’re no longer your old self, but you’re not fully your new self yet. You’re in that in-between space — and it can feel uncomfortable, even frustrating.

But the real question is: how do we navigate this space? How do we apply it?

This is where the integration comes in. Whether we’re talking about lifestyle or business, the principle is the same: identity first.

• In lifestyle: You start making choices from the version of yourself you want to be. You structure your days, your habits, your environment, even your relationships, around her. You ask yourself: ‘How would she think, act, receive, and show up?’ Then you do it even if the outside world hasn’t yet reflected it. That’s how your dream life starts to materialize.

• In business: You operate from that same frequency. You design your offers, communicate with clients, and show up in your brand as the woman whose business already exists — even if the numbers or external proof aren’t there yet. Your business becomes a mirror of your identity, amplifying the lifestyle you’re embodying.

So navigating the in-between isn’t about rushing reality. It’s about stabilizing in your chosen self first and allowing your lifestyle and business to naturally align with that frequency.

In other words: the in-between is not a pause. It’s your proving ground the space where your identity, lifestyle, and business integrate and evolve together.

If you want to work with me in any of this, you can DM me on Instagram @itsruthazikiwe et’s chat and see how I can support you.