Romance novels are often seen as harmless entertainment, but in this episode we take a closer look at the silent ways they shape women’s hearts, minds, and relationships. These stories promise escape and excitement, but many quietly erode joy, peace, and contentment—often leaving women dissatisfied with real life and real intimacy.
We talk honestly about why explicit romance novels function like pornography for women, setting up unrealistic expectations, distorting God’s design for love, and robbing us of the ability to fully cherish the relationships we’ve been given. We also explore the double standard: men are shamed for pornography, but women are often excused when turning to romance novels for the same kind of escape.
This episode isn’t about shame—it’s about freedom. Together we uncover the lies, bring them into the light, and talk about how to cultivate hearts that are rooted in truth, satisfied in Christ, and able to experience genuine peace and intimacy in the relationships God has entrusted to us.
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