Has your teenager experienced a trauma that’s effecting their mental health? Perhaps you’ve asked them to see a therapist but they resist because it takes ‘too long & they can’t fit therapy in with all their studies’ & other commitments.
If this sounds like a problem your family has been struggling with, you’re going to get a lot of ideas during this episode.
Introduction & Welcome
Dr Marie Thompson is a Clinical Psychologist and Medical Director at Vivamus. She specialises in EMDR which is a very effective treatment in helping with all sorts of issues including trauma, bereavement, anxiety and relationship issues.
Today’s Topic - The problem we’re solving
Good morning!
Today I’m interviewing Dr Marie Thompson from The Vivamus Clinic in Health Care City for the Raising Mentally Fit Kids’ podcast🎙
We’re going to talk about helping teens deal with trauma using EMDR Therapy.
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Has your teen been struggling to deal with something that’s happened to them❓
Are you concerned about them being traumatised and not coping with their memories, emotions and worries? 😳
Are they refusing therapy because they can’t fit it in with school work & they don’t want to talk to a stranger for hours & hours?
Do you doubt yourself or feel guilty that they’re not getting therapy even though you know something is not quite right 🤔
Dr Thompson & I are going to chat about a therapy called EMDR that could be just what you’re looking for.
Please leave any questions you’d like me to ask Dr Marie in the comments before 11am & I’ll make sure your question is answered in the podcast.
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Thank you!
1. Can you explain the basics about EMDR…what it is, what happens & how it works?
2. How does it compare to CBT & other talk therapy?
3. What positive results have you seen in adolescents?
4. Who would this treatment be a good fit for?
5. How can listeners book an appointment with you?
How do we know when headaches, tummy aches & feeling sick have turned into an anxiety disorder? 😷 🤕 🤢
Introduction & Welcome
Dr Devinder Kapoor is a Specialist in Homeopathy and certified in NAET and Functional Medicine. She brings over 18 years of experience specializing in Homeopathic practice, and she believes in Holistic Medicine, all about addressing the root cause of the disease, not chasing the medicine to treat the symptoms. The Homeopathic treatment facilitates the patients with a phenomenal experience of healing which helps them to become “unstuck” from chronic dysfunctional patterns at the somatic, mental, social, spiritual, and developmental levels. It triggers a healing response resulting in greater sense of “freedom” at multiple levels.
Today’s Topic - The problem we’re solving
Good morning!
Today I’m interviewing Dr Devinder from The Chiron Clinic In Sustainable City for the Raising Mentally Fit Kids’ podcast🎙
We’re going to talk about physical anxiety symptoms & when to get an intervention.
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Does your child complain of tummy aches, feeling sick & headaches❓
Do you worry about believing them? 😳
Do you doubt yourself or feel guilty when you send them into school feeling like this? 🤔
Dr Devinder & I are going to chat all about these common parenting worries.
Please leave any questions you’d like me to ask Dr Dev in the comments before 11am & I’ll make sure your question is answered in the podcast.
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Thank you!
Questions:
1. What questions do parents ask you about anxiety related problems in your clinic?
2. What are the most common physical symptoms of anxiety & why do children get them?
3. When is it time to get an intervention?
4. What treatment do you recommend to parents whose children’s anxiety has started to effect their day to day functioning?
5. What reassurance can you give parents who send their children in to school even when they’re complaining about anxiety aches & pains?
Did you know that children's quality of their mental health greatly affects their personal, academic and professional success? How do you think your children cope with conflict, uncomfortable situations, and stress? How can you know if they are getting the right balance?
Welcome to the Raising Mentally Fit Kids podcast!
I am so thrilled to finally introduce you to podcast your kids NEED you to listen to. Tune in to my pilot episode, where I dive deep to help you clarify just how mentally “fit” your child is.
We will be answering some of your most pressing questions to find out if our kids truly have what it takes to deal with the conflict, uncomfortable situations, and stress of everyday life.
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This is an incredibly powerful skill to learn and will radically impact on their future.
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