Doug & Brian met in 1989 at university when the U.S. society was still very homophobic. When they met, there were no gay role models or representation in the media, and gay people were most commonly associated with the AIDS epidemic. In this episode, they talk about how their deep conviction helped them come to terms with their sexuality, live authentically and achieve the American dream in an environment that wasn’t queer friendly. The gay dads of two daughters also share tips on how they maintain a healthy relationship over 30 years and overcome all the challenges of surrogacy in the 90s. #gaycouple #gayhusbands #gayparents #gayrelationship #gayrelationshipgoals #gaywedding #gayswithstories #lgbtpride #lgbt #lgbtcouple