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Quiet Reflections: On BPD Recovery
Avery the Quiet
29 episodes
1 day ago
Before getting a BPD diagnosis, I spent my life wondering what was wrong with me. Plot twist: My brain was doing everything it could to help me survive with big feelings. And survive, I did. If you feel deeply, but keep it all inside: you're not alone. This is a podcast about recovery, trusting yourself, and taking control of your feelings rather than letting them drive. No shame or judgment. Just real talk, practical skills, and the kind of understanding you might not have found anywhere else. Your recovery journey is calling... 📞 Ready to listen?
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Before getting a BPD diagnosis, I spent my life wondering what was wrong with me. Plot twist: My brain was doing everything it could to help me survive with big feelings. And survive, I did. If you feel deeply, but keep it all inside: you're not alone. This is a podcast about recovery, trusting yourself, and taking control of your feelings rather than letting them drive. No shame or judgment. Just real talk, practical skills, and the kind of understanding you might not have found anywhere else. Your recovery journey is calling... 📞 Ready to listen?
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Mental Health
Health & Fitness
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Validating Each Other When You Love Someone With BPD, w/ Dr. Kiki Fehling
Quiet Reflections: On BPD Recovery
47 minutes 38 seconds
1 year ago
Validating Each Other When You Love Someone With BPD, w/ Dr. Kiki Fehling

At its core, validation is communicating to someone that their internal experiences and emotions make sense.


Dr. Kiki Fehling, PhD, (she/her) has always been a highly sensitive person. When she learned about DBT, it just clicked for her: "the practical coping skills... the focus on cultural and contextual factors in understanding emotional suffering, and the dialectical philosophy that both acceptance and change are needed for emotional health."


Kiki's content on TikTok and Instagram clicked for ME: especially the way she explained the Six Steps of Validation in DBT. I'm incredibly delighted to have spoken to her about it! This episode is a must-listen for those with BPD and their loved ones if you're asking yourself:

  • How do I talk to my loved one with BPD?
  • How do I navigate difficult conversations without escalating conflict?
  • How do I learn to validate myself when other people cannot?
  • How do I learn to validate myself if I keep wondering if I'm being irrational?


Six Steps of Validation, by @dbtkiki:

  1. Pay Attention
  2. Reflecting Back
  3. Reading Minds
  4. Understanding the Causes
  5. Acknowledging the Valid
  6. Showing Equality, aka. Radical Genuineness


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more by Dr Kiki: Website | Instagram | TikTok | X

Self Directed DBT Skills: A 3-Month DBT Workbook, by Kiki Fehling, PhD and Elliot Weiner, PhD


[ r e a d m o r e ]

DBT Self Help: Validation

Does Validating Condone Troubling Behaviour?


Need a DBT Skill? DBT Pocket Guide


[ s o c i a l s ]

averythequiet.carrd.co

heartandsleeve.co


Join me on Discord:

The Quiet BPD Keep is a recovery-focused community that offers daily affirmations, tarot readings, self-care reminders, DBT skills, books and resources, and more. Age 18+, LGBTQ+ and 420 friendly.


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Recorded with: Podcastle

Music by: ODDBAHL • Lunareh • Out of Flux


[ d i s c l a i m e r ]

My content is meant for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for professional clinical advice, diagnosis, or therapy.


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Quiet Reflections: On BPD Recovery
Before getting a BPD diagnosis, I spent my life wondering what was wrong with me. Plot twist: My brain was doing everything it could to help me survive with big feelings. And survive, I did. If you feel deeply, but keep it all inside: you're not alone. This is a podcast about recovery, trusting yourself, and taking control of your feelings rather than letting them drive. No shame or judgment. Just real talk, practical skills, and the kind of understanding you might not have found anywhere else. Your recovery journey is calling... 📞 Ready to listen?