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Quiet Reflections: On BPD Recovery
Avery the Quiet
29 episodes
1 day ago
Before getting a BPD diagnosis, I spent my life wondering what was wrong with me. Plot twist: My brain was doing everything it could to help me survive with big feelings. And survive, I did. If you feel deeply, but keep it all inside: you're not alone. This is a podcast about recovery, trusting yourself, and taking control of your feelings rather than letting them drive. No shame or judgment. Just real talk, practical skills, and the kind of understanding you might not have found anywhere else. Your recovery journey is calling... 📞 Ready to listen?
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Before getting a BPD diagnosis, I spent my life wondering what was wrong with me. Plot twist: My brain was doing everything it could to help me survive with big feelings. And survive, I did. If you feel deeply, but keep it all inside: you're not alone. This is a podcast about recovery, trusting yourself, and taking control of your feelings rather than letting them drive. No shame or judgment. Just real talk, practical skills, and the kind of understanding you might not have found anywhere else. Your recovery journey is calling... 📞 Ready to listen?
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Mental Health
Health & Fitness
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Interpersonal Effectiveness for BPD, Pt. 4: How Strongly Should I Ask or Say No?
Quiet Reflections: On BPD Recovery
34 minutes 19 seconds
1 year ago
Interpersonal Effectiveness for BPD, Pt. 4: How Strongly Should I Ask or Say No?

In Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), the fourth and final module - known as Interpersonal Effectiveness - teaches you skills to communicate effectively, set boundaries, and maintain relationships while achieving your personal goals.


In this week of TheraHive's course, we'll go over two DBT tools: FAST, and The Dime Game.

FAST is a skill you can use in an interaction where your self-respect should be prioritized. It stands for Fair; Apology-Free; Stick to your values; Truthful.

The Dime Game is a great tool you can refer back to any time, especially with issues where you're unsure who to go to for advice on the situation.

You also don't need to memorize it all. Here's The Dime Game.


In this episode, I’ll go over my reflections on Week 4 of the course, including:

  • What kind of things can I used the FAST skill for?
  • Am I right to prioritize my self respect sometimes?
  • What does it look like to use the FAST skill effectively?
  • How do I balance the priorities of both my self respect and my relationships?
  • Am I justified in asking for things or saying no?
  • Ten things to consider when determining how strongly you should ask or say no
  • What does it look like to use The Dime Game to say no to someone?
  • What does it mean when we need to put our safety or survival before using the Dime Game?


Thank you to Roland, Alicia, Jesse, and the TheraHive team for having me try out this course!


[ m o r e ]

TheraHive: DBT Skills Group, Course Info

Need a DBT Skill? DBT Pocket Guide

Blog Post: Dr. Jesse Finkelstein Joins 'Quiet, Not Silent' podcast to Share Insights on DBT


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The Quiet BPD Keep is a recovery-focused community that offers daily affirmations, tarot readings, self-care reminders, DBT skills, books and resources, and more. Age 18+, LGBTQ+ and 420 friendly.


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Quiet Reflections: On BPD Recovery
Before getting a BPD diagnosis, I spent my life wondering what was wrong with me. Plot twist: My brain was doing everything it could to help me survive with big feelings. And survive, I did. If you feel deeply, but keep it all inside: you're not alone. This is a podcast about recovery, trusting yourself, and taking control of your feelings rather than letting them drive. No shame or judgment. Just real talk, practical skills, and the kind of understanding you might not have found anywhere else. Your recovery journey is calling... 📞 Ready to listen?