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Quiet, Not Silent: Recovering with BPD
Avery the Quiet
34 episodes
9 months ago

AVERY WILL RETURN IN 2025

Thank you for all of your incredible support while I've navigated many personal challenges and changes in 2024.


Your recovery journey is calling...

All you have to do is listen.

📞🌱

You got this.


Wherever you are on your journey, I would love to hear from you.

hello@averythequiet.com


Quiet, Not Silent is a podcast dedicated to exploring recovery while living with Borderline Personality Disorder.


I'm Avery (they/them), and I live with quiet (discouraged) BPD. I was diagnosed with BPD in 2019 at 24 years old. After reading about Millon's subtypes, I was finally able to understand the way I had been coping with this mental health condition.


The subtypes have been an effective describing tool for many people with BPD to better explain their own experiences and coping mechanisms. After all, no two people experience BPD the exact same way.


Since 2021, I've been compelled to break the silence that stigma traps us in, and speak up on my experiences with this hidden subtype.

So, here I am: quiet, not silent.


Follow my IG for updates: @averythequiet

More info: averythequiet.carrd.co


xx atq



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AVERY WILL RETURN IN 2025

Thank you for all of your incredible support while I've navigated many personal challenges and changes in 2024.


Your recovery journey is calling...

All you have to do is listen.

📞🌱

You got this.


Wherever you are on your journey, I would love to hear from you.

hello@averythequiet.com


Quiet, Not Silent is a podcast dedicated to exploring recovery while living with Borderline Personality Disorder.


I'm Avery (they/them), and I live with quiet (discouraged) BPD. I was diagnosed with BPD in 2019 at 24 years old. After reading about Millon's subtypes, I was finally able to understand the way I had been coping with this mental health condition.


The subtypes have been an effective describing tool for many people with BPD to better explain their own experiences and coping mechanisms. After all, no two people experience BPD the exact same way.


Since 2021, I've been compelled to break the silence that stigma traps us in, and speak up on my experiences with this hidden subtype.

So, here I am: quiet, not silent.


Follow my IG for updates: @averythequiet

More info: averythequiet.carrd.co


xx atq



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Interpersonal Effectiveness for BPD, Pt. 3: Recovering From Invalidation
Quiet, Not Silent: Recovering with BPD
28 minutes 23 seconds
1 year ago
Interpersonal Effectiveness for BPD, Pt. 3: Recovering From Invalidation

In Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), the fourth and final module - known as Interpersonal Effectiveness - teaches you skills to communicate effectively, set boundaries, and maintain relationships while achieving your personal goals. If you'd like to take this exact course, here's a 25% discount code you can use on your deposit - just cause you listen to my pod. (QUIETBPD25)


A lot of times, it’s not what you say that can be effective, it’s HOW you say it. The GIVE skill stands for: Gentle, Interested, Validate, and Easy Manner.


The GIVE skill in DBT is all about the Relationship Effectiveness objective when it comes to interpersonal situations, and it’s meant to help you leave that situation with the other person thinking well of you.

Do you wanna be RIGHT, or do you wanna be EFFECTIVE?


In this episode, I’ll go over my reflections on Week 3 of the course, including:

  • Why do we sometimes make threats or make our behaviour someone else's responsibility?
  • How do we stop using these kinds of coping mechanisms in order to make ourselves heard?
  • How can I be gentle, without being passive?
  • What happens when we effectively use the GIVE skill in tougher interactions?
  • What does it mean to validate someone? Should we validate things even if they're invalid?
  • Is there such a thing as HELPFUL invalidation?
  • How do we recover from corrosive, or harmful invalidation?
  • A letter to my 15 year old self, validating them after a big moment of invalidation


Thank you to Roland, Alicia, Jesse, and the TheraHive team for collaborating with me and allowing me to try out this course!


TYSM to my wonderful patrons:

Christian • Steph • Winter Peach • Ashley Marie • Tom • Kristen • Mimi • Bjorn • Pluto • Laura

Your support helps me to keep going. <3


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TheraHive: DBT Skills Group, Course Info

Need a DBT Skill? DBT Pocket Guide

Blog Post: Dr. Jesse Finkelstein Joins 'Quiet, Not Silent' podcast to Share Insights on DBT


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The Quiet BPD Keep is a recovery-focused community that offers daily affirmations, tarot readings, self-care reminders, DBT skills, books and resources, and more. Age 18+, LGBTQ+ and 420 friendly.


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My content is meant for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for professional clinical advice, diagnosis, or therapy.



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Quiet, Not Silent: Recovering with BPD

AVERY WILL RETURN IN 2025

Thank you for all of your incredible support while I've navigated many personal challenges and changes in 2024.


Your recovery journey is calling...

All you have to do is listen.

📞🌱

You got this.


Wherever you are on your journey, I would love to hear from you.

hello@averythequiet.com


Quiet, Not Silent is a podcast dedicated to exploring recovery while living with Borderline Personality Disorder.


I'm Avery (they/them), and I live with quiet (discouraged) BPD. I was diagnosed with BPD in 2019 at 24 years old. After reading about Millon's subtypes, I was finally able to understand the way I had been coping with this mental health condition.


The subtypes have been an effective describing tool for many people with BPD to better explain their own experiences and coping mechanisms. After all, no two people experience BPD the exact same way.


Since 2021, I've been compelled to break the silence that stigma traps us in, and speak up on my experiences with this hidden subtype.

So, here I am: quiet, not silent.


Follow my IG for updates: @averythequiet

More info: averythequiet.carrd.co


xx atq



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.