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Quiet, Not Silent: Recovering with BPD
Avery the Quiet
34 episodes
9 months ago

AVERY WILL RETURN IN 2025

Thank you for all of your incredible support while I've navigated many personal challenges and changes in 2024.


Your recovery journey is calling...

All you have to do is listen.

📞🌱

You got this.


Wherever you are on your journey, I would love to hear from you.

hello@averythequiet.com


Quiet, Not Silent is a podcast dedicated to exploring recovery while living with Borderline Personality Disorder.


I'm Avery (they/them), and I live with quiet (discouraged) BPD. I was diagnosed with BPD in 2019 at 24 years old. After reading about Millon's subtypes, I was finally able to understand the way I had been coping with this mental health condition.


The subtypes have been an effective describing tool for many people with BPD to better explain their own experiences and coping mechanisms. After all, no two people experience BPD the exact same way.


Since 2021, I've been compelled to break the silence that stigma traps us in, and speak up on my experiences with this hidden subtype.

So, here I am: quiet, not silent.


Follow my IG for updates: @averythequiet

More info: averythequiet.carrd.co


xx atq



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AVERY WILL RETURN IN 2025

Thank you for all of your incredible support while I've navigated many personal challenges and changes in 2024.


Your recovery journey is calling...

All you have to do is listen.

📞🌱

You got this.


Wherever you are on your journey, I would love to hear from you.

hello@averythequiet.com


Quiet, Not Silent is a podcast dedicated to exploring recovery while living with Borderline Personality Disorder.


I'm Avery (they/them), and I live with quiet (discouraged) BPD. I was diagnosed with BPD in 2019 at 24 years old. After reading about Millon's subtypes, I was finally able to understand the way I had been coping with this mental health condition.


The subtypes have been an effective describing tool for many people with BPD to better explain their own experiences and coping mechanisms. After all, no two people experience BPD the exact same way.


Since 2021, I've been compelled to break the silence that stigma traps us in, and speak up on my experiences with this hidden subtype.

So, here I am: quiet, not silent.


Follow my IG for updates: @averythequiet

More info: averythequiet.carrd.co


xx atq



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Show more...
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Interpersonal Effectiveness for BPD, Pt. 6: Why Punishment Doesn't Actually Work
Quiet, Not Silent: Recovering with BPD
32 minutes 17 seconds
1 year ago
Interpersonal Effectiveness for BPD, Pt. 6: Why Punishment Doesn't Actually Work

Content Warning: Discussion of Self H*rm


Behaviorism is a scientific approach in psychology that focuses on the study of observable behaviors rather than people’s internal mental processes. The reason it's good to consider Behaviorism when learning about Interpersonal Effectiveness, is because it's helpful for us to understand how to reinforce the behaviour we want to see in ourselves and in others, and to make sure we're conscious of the ways we might be reinforcing unwanted behaviours without realizing.


In this episode, I’ll go over my reflections on the FINAL WEEK of the course, including:

  • What is Classical and Operant Conditioning?
  • What is Positive and Negative Reinforcement?
  • Why do we need to reinforce behavior when people should just know it's the right thing to do?
  • What is the difference between Continuous and Intermittent Reinforcement?
  • Are we reinforcing other people's behaviour without even realizing it?
  • What is the difference between Positive and Negative Punishment?
  • Why isn't punishment effective in eliminating behaviours in the long term?
  • MICROHABIT TRACKERS: Reinforcing your own behavior


Thank you to Roland, Alicia, Jesse, and the TheraHive team for collaborating with me and allowing me to try out this course!


QUIET BPD PATREON | TYSM to my wonderful patrons:

Christian • Steph • Winter Peach • Ashley Marie • Tom • Mimi • Kristen • Bjorn • Laura • Sierra • Bree • Ruxia

Your support helps me to keep going. <3


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TheraHive: DBT Skills Group, Course Info

Need a DBT Skill? DBT Pocket Guide

Blog Post: Dr. Jesse Finkelstein Joins 'Quiet, Not Silent' podcast to Share Insights on DBT


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INSTAGRAM | PATREON

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The Quiet BPD Keep is a recovery-focused community with daily affirmations, tarot readings, DBT skills, books and resources, and more. Age 18+, LGBTQ+ and 420 friendly.


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Music by: ODDBAHL • Lunareh • Out of Flux


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My content is meant for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for professional clinical advice, diagnosis, or therapy.



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Quiet, Not Silent: Recovering with BPD

AVERY WILL RETURN IN 2025

Thank you for all of your incredible support while I've navigated many personal challenges and changes in 2024.


Your recovery journey is calling...

All you have to do is listen.

📞🌱

You got this.


Wherever you are on your journey, I would love to hear from you.

hello@averythequiet.com


Quiet, Not Silent is a podcast dedicated to exploring recovery while living with Borderline Personality Disorder.


I'm Avery (they/them), and I live with quiet (discouraged) BPD. I was diagnosed with BPD in 2019 at 24 years old. After reading about Millon's subtypes, I was finally able to understand the way I had been coping with this mental health condition.


The subtypes have been an effective describing tool for many people with BPD to better explain their own experiences and coping mechanisms. After all, no two people experience BPD the exact same way.


Since 2021, I've been compelled to break the silence that stigma traps us in, and speak up on my experiences with this hidden subtype.

So, here I am: quiet, not silent.


Follow my IG for updates: @averythequiet

More info: averythequiet.carrd.co


xx atq



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.