In this episode of Queer Talker, host Ben Cicchetti sits down with Helen Scott — author of Live, Laugh, Lesbian, radio DJ, stand-up comedian, and content creator — to explore her vibrant queer journey and the power of showing up authentically online and offline.
Helen opens up about navigating bullying as a child, discovering her sexuality in an era with little representation, and the moment queer nightlife gave her that first true sense of belonging. She also shares how her online community inspired her bestselling book, why we must embrace fluidity in identity, and how the queer community can come together to fight division in the face of rising hostility.
They dive into the double-edged sword of social media, the importance of offline queer spaces, and practical advice for anyone — from teens to those coming out later in life — looking to build community and live joyfully as their true self.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone passionate about queer joy, authentic representation, and building a stronger, more connected LGBTQ+ community.
Chapters
00:00 Understanding Childhood Influences on Identity
01:45 First Awareness of LGBTQ+ Community
04:42 The Journey to Authenticity
07:53 The Impact of Community and Belonging
10:40 The Birth of 'Live, Laugh, Lesbian'
13:42 Navigating Stereotypes and Expectations
16:54 The Role of Social Media in Representation
20:02 The Power of Authenticity in Visibility
24:04 Embracing Authenticity and Self-Acceptance
27:08 Building Community in Real Life
31:04 Advice for the Younger Self and the Queer Community
34:39 Celebrating Queer Icons and Representation
38:12 The Impact of Writing and Legacy
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