In this episode of Queer Talker, host Ben Cicchetti sits down with Chris McAllister—comedian, writer, actor, and self-described “person-next-door funny”—to explore how humor, identity, and visibility can work together to spark real social change.
Chris shares how growing up as a tomboy in Northern England shaped their early sense of self, why they came out as a lesbian before later identifying as transmasc, and how their wife helped unlock their fullest, most authentic self. They reflect on the healing power of sobriety, the complexity of pregnancy as a trans person, and the joy of helping others understand trans identity—one joke at a time.
They also unpack what it’s like to be visibly trans in today’s political climate, why curiosity should be met with compassion, and how laughter can soften hearts, shift narratives, and open minds. From viral Instagram videos to starring in the web series Kit, Chris proves that trans joy isn’t just powerful—it’s disarming.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone passionate about trans visibility, using your voice for change, and finding joy in being unapologetically you.
Chapters
00:00 The Power of Humor in Social Change
01:31 Childhood and Identity Formation
05:45 First Encounters with LGBTQ+ Representation
09:51 Navigating Authenticity and Relationships
11:40 Comparing Trans Rights: UK vs Australia
16:31 The Impact of Social Media on Trans Visibility
19:42 The Role of Comedy in Education
25:32 Balancing Visibility and Safety
29:38 Advice for Younger Generations
33:40 Rapid Fire Questions and Personal Favorites
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