You’re married—but why does it still feel like you’re doing everything by yourself? In this powerful episode, we’re unpacking the silent truth that many women carry: being in a two-parent household, yet functioning like a single mom.
From handling school emails and bedtime routines to managing every meltdown and meal, the weight of motherhood is landing on your shoulders—and it’s time we talk about it.
We’ll explore why so many husbands are emotionally or physically checked out, how cultural norms and upbringing play a role, and most importantly, how you can begin to rebalance the load and reclaim your peace.
🔑 In This Episode, We Cover:
The real reasons married women feel like single parents
The emotional, mental, and physical labor that often falls on wives
Why some husbands aren’t showing up as fathers—and what’s behind it
Strategies for rebalancing the parenting load (for all income levels)
How to have a “Family Reset” conversation that actually changes things
A mindset shift that helps you stop enabling imbalance without guilt
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