Welcome to episode #236! 🎙️ Pure Victory Podcast: The Bonfire Effect – Moving From Pain to Purpose: With John Rodermond
In this powerful episode, Braden sits down with fellow FamilyLife Canada staff, John Rodermond to unpack the “Bonfire Effect”—a visual and practical way to understand why we often fall back into unhealthy patterns like porn addiction. They explore how pain can motivate short-term change, but lasting freedom comes when we’re drawn toward a God-given purpose.
John shares from his experience in ministry and coaching, offering wisdom on identity, motivation, and how to move from surviving to thriving in Christ.
✨ Key Takeaways
• Pain can push you, but purpose pulls you.
Real change happens when you’re drawn toward something greater, not just running from discomfort.
• Addiction is often a symptom, not the root.
Lasting freedom requires healing the deeper wounds—shame, fear, trauma—not just managing behavior.
• Your identity in Christ is key.
When you know who you are and why you’re here, your choices begin to align with your God-given purpose.
• Don’t do it alone.
Healing happens in community. Invite Jesus and trusted people into your journey.
• Live by design, not default.
Define your vision. Ask God what He’s calling you toward and take intentional steps to get there.
🙌 Final Encouragement
You were made for more than just avoiding sin—you were made for purpose, impact, and freedom in Christ. Don’t just run from the fire; run toward the future God has for you.
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BRADEN HAFNER
Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com