In this episode of Pulling Threads, the host is joined by Bev to discuss the often-overlooked topic of grief during and after breakups and divorce. The conversation delves into the emotional complexities of ending marriages and relationships, the unique type of grief associated with it, and practical tips to help both the individuals going through it and their support systems. They cover a range of topics, including the unexpected waves of grief, the process of healing, the importance of having a support system, and strategies for moving on. They also discuss what not to say to someone going through a divorce and how to be there for friends in these difficult times.00:00 Introduction to Grieving Breakups and Divorce02:15 Understanding the Emotional Impact of Divorce06:16 Navigating the Complexities of Divorce Grief07:51 The Decision-Making Process Before Divorce13:36 Financial and Social Challenges Post-Divorce16:40 Stages of Grief in Divorce22:13 Rebuilding After Divorce30:34 Advice for Those Considering Divorce38:29 Setting Personal Goals and Evaluating Relationships39:29 Assessing Compatibility and Support in Relationships42:21 Making Decisions and Taking Action43:37 Navigating Divorce and Emotional Challenges44:47 Effective Communication During Divorce47:31 Self-Advocacy and Understanding Others57:26 Coping Strategies and Professional Support01:03:29 Final Thoughts and Moving Forward