
SETTING CLEAR EXPECTATIONS: THE SECRET TO STRONGER TEEN RELATIONSHIPS
In this eye-opening episode, I reveal why teens secretly crave boundaries and how setting clear expectations can transform your relationship. Through a powerful real-world example of Tina and Jake's journey from constant conflict to meaningful connection, you'll learn the exact framework for creating expectations that actually stick.
Drawing parallels from "The Karate Kid," Mike breaks down the difference between expectations and boundaries, showing how Mr. Miyagi's "wax on, wax off" approach demonstrates the power of clear guidance and trusted structure. You'll discover the three-step process for setting expectations that create buy-in instead of pushback, plus practical scripts you can use immediately.
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
• How to have boundary-setting conversations that don't end in arguments
• The secret to creating consequences that actually work
• Why timing matters when setting expectations
• Practical examples for common teen issues like curfew and phone use
• How to build trust while maintaining authority
Perfect for parents struggling with power struggles, communication breakdown, or feeling like their boundaries aren't working. Whether you're dealing with screen time battles, curfew conflicts, or academic challenges, this episode provides the roadmap to move from constant conflict to genuine connection.