Keywords
parenthood, parenting, relationship expert, couplehood, mental health, support systems, emotional growth, nesting, bonding, preparation for parenthood
Summary
In this conversation, Dr. Stephanie Dueger speaks with Australian parenthood and relationship expert, bestselling author, and founder of Becoming Us, the whole-family approach to parenthood, Elly Taylor. Elly shares the critical distinctions between parenting and parenthood, the importance of couple-hood during the major rite of passage transition into parenthood, and the need for preparation and support systems for new parents. They discuss the emotional and relational challenges that often arise after having a baby, the significance of nesting, resting, and bonding, and the impact of relationship dynamics on mental health. Elly shares insights from her book/ program, Becoming Us, which aims to help couples navigate the complexities of parenthood together, fostering deeper connections and understanding.
Takeaways
~“Parenthood” is a different focus in becoming a parent that is often overlooked in favor of “parenting.”
~Preparation for the major rite of passage involved becoming a parent is essential for new parents.
~Approximately 92% of couples experience increased conflict during the first year after having a baby.
~Having a baby takes a couple's relationship to a new level that they've likely never visited before at a time of great changes, sleep deprivation, and often less support and capacity to cope.
~Nesting, resting, and bonding are the most critical priorities postpartum. Parenthood involves adjusting expectations.
~It's important to create a supportive environment for new families, where parents can feel very vulnerable.
~Approximately one in three birth moms and one in five dads or partners are struggling with mental health issues in adjusting to new parenthood.
Guest Contact:
Website: www.becomingusfamily.com
Purchase Elly Taylor's Book on Amazon: Becoming Us: 8 Steps to Grow a Family that Thrives
Host Contact:
Dr. Stephanie Dueger: info@preparedforparenthood.com
Website: https://preparedforparenthood.com
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Get Dr. Dueger's Book on Amazon: Preparing for Parenthood: 55 Essential Conversations for Couples Becoming Families
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