In this episode, the Practically Pastoring crew tackles a tough but necessary topic: what do you do when a long-time volunteer is actually causing harm in your ministry? From nursery drama to worship team woes, the guys share practical advice on how to set clear expectations, implement safe church policies, and have those difficult conversations with grace and firmness.
⏱️ Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro & Church Merch Shoutout
02:20 - Listener Question: The Problematic Nursery Volunteer
04:45 - Stories of Inheriting Difficult Volunteers
06:00 - Using Policy to Address Outdated Practices
08:40 - Why It's So Hard to Have These Conversations
10:30 - The Role of Elders and Church Leadership
12:30 - Avoiding Emotional Fallout
14:10 - Honoring Legacy While Making Changes
16:00 - Practical Tips for Onboarding and Training Volunteers
20:00 - Who Should Be in the Room for the Hard Talk?
23:00 - Preparing for Emotional Blowback
25:00 - Advice for Younger Pastors
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