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PLAYING-IT-SAFE
Dr. Z. - Patricia Zurita Ona, Psy.D.
93 episodes
4 months ago
I'm Dr. Z., a clinical psychologist and an author. In PLAYING-IT-SAFE I will share with you research based-skills, interviews, readings, insights, tips, and all types of curated info to get unstuck from worries, anxieties, fears, obsessions, and ineffective playing-it-safe actions. 

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I'm Dr. Z., a clinical psychologist and an author. In PLAYING-IT-SAFE I will share with you research based-skills, interviews, readings, insights, tips, and all types of curated info to get unstuck from worries, anxieties, fears, obsessions, and ineffective playing-it-safe actions. 

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Mental Health
Education,
Self-Improvement,
Health & Fitness
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90. Overcoming fear of failure
PLAYING-IT-SAFE
32 minutes 36 seconds
1 year ago
90. Overcoming fear of failure

Drop your standards! Let go of your perfectionistic tendencies!


If I were paid a dollar every time I heard this message, I would have a large bank account by now.


When you’re pursuing a top performance – from athletic to intellectual to artistic ones – it’s fundamental that you distinguish those common principles that improve your performance and your well-being altogether.


In this episode, Brad Stulberg and I discussed research-based skills to deal with high-achieving and striving behaviors in a skillful manner and without losing yourself. 


Key Takeaways


  • How to distinguish when perfectionistic actions are working for you or against you
  • The difference between values-based goals and ego-driven goals
  • How to avoid burnout in the information era
  • How to manage your proneness to perfectionistic actions
  • Day-to-day experiences of experiential avoidance
  • Tips to handle the fear of failure
  • How to figure out what is on the other side of your fears
  • How to practice self-compassion when handling our fears


Show notes with time stamps


00:31 Understanding Fear-Based Reactions

01:02 Overcoming Perfectionism

01:36 Interview with Brad Stulberg: High Achieving and Striving Behaviors

02:19 Reflecting on Your Life and Overcoming Overthinking

03:28 Living According to Your Values

04:10 Using a Values-Based Review to Live the Life You Want

04:46 Conversation with Brad Stulberg: Balancing Productivity and Wellbeing

05:43 Understanding the Double-Edged Sword of Optimization

08:44 Dealing with Fear of Failure and Regret

17:48 Navigating Ego-Driven Goals and Values-Based Goals

24:09 Overcoming Experiential Avoidance


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PLAYING-IT-SAFE
I'm Dr. Z., a clinical psychologist and an author. In PLAYING-IT-SAFE I will share with you research based-skills, interviews, readings, insights, tips, and all types of curated info to get unstuck from worries, anxieties, fears, obsessions, and ineffective playing-it-safe actions. 

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.