
Hi… it’s Plam.
This is not the episode I planned to record.
Actually, I didn’t plan any of this. I just pressed record — because something inside me said, enough silence.
For a long time, I thought I had to hold everything together — the business, the motherhood, the image, the calm.
But when my mother passed away, something shifted.
It was as if every layer I had built — every role, every version of me — cracked open all at once.
And underneath it, there was this voice that I had been ignoring for years.
This episode is me finally listening to that voice.
It’s not polished. It’s not edited. It’s twenty minutes of me trying to make sense of what it means to lose someone you love, and still keep showing up.
To rebuild your world piece by piece — and to find beauty again, not just in what you wear, but in the way you exist.
If you’re here, maybe you’ve felt that moment too — when the silence gets too heavy and you just need to speak.
So… that’s what this is.
Me, finally speaking.....
Welcome to The Unlocking of Style and Soul.
Let’s begin.