Hello guys! On this Valentine's weekend we want to revisit the topic of marriage and the pressure from our communities. This time around we want to hear it from the guy's point of view! We sit down with Tefo AKA DJ Remy from Botswana. Tefo has lived in Sweden most of his adult life and is used to the dating life in Scandinavia. But now as a returnee he's having to deal with a different dating field and a different mentality when it comes to gender role...and on top of that he feels that the club environment is not where he can really find wifey. 

Just like us Tefo grew up with a mix of cultural identities and he feels that he's potential life partner should be able to navigate both European and African ways of life. Listen to find out what exactly he needs from a life partner and how he's personally dealing with the pressure to get married.