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Ever look back on your dating life and cringe a little? Whether it’s staying too long in a relationship or situationship that wasn’t moving toward long-term commitment, wondering if you’re “too old” to be single, or replaying things you wish you did differently—we’ve all been there.
In today’s episode, we’re letting go of the guilt and shame that might be holding you back from your next chapter. From past dating decisions and relationship timelines to boundaries, baby names on the first date, and walking away from someone who looked “perfect on paper”—we’re unpacking the 13 most common things people feel guilty about in their dating life... and why it’s time to release them.
Get ready to walk away with mindset shifts, real talk, and the kind of compassionate clarity you didn’t know you needed :) Because here’s the truth: your dating journey isn’t something to be ashamed of. It’s something to be proud of—growth, lessons, and all.
Ready to ditch emotional baggage and transition from giving yourself grief to giving yourself grace?! Press play today.
Timestamps
00:00 Letting Go of Dating Guilt and Shame
01:20 Reframing Singlehood and Societal Timelines
02:48 Reflecting on Past Dating Choices
05:06 Prioritizing Your Partnership Search
08:32 Navigating Relationship Breakups
09:27 Taking a Break from Dating
10:56 Thinking About Marriage Early On
12:37 Evaluating Good-on-Paper Partners
13:48 Expressing Needs and Boundaries
15:36 Dating Apps and Mixers
16:28 Women Making the First Move
17:55 Defining the Relationship
19:24 Recognizing Your Dating Standards
20:20 Big Pink Question
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