What do you do when you learn you don’t have a strong sexual connection with a play partner…right in the middle of play? Disco and The Dude discuss a playdate where Disco recounts the experience and answers the question above. It’s normal that not all encounters will be mind blowing, and when it’s not how do you handle the experience while it is occurring and how do you turn it into a positive learning opportunity afterward.   We take on a subject that is often not discussed but often happens to most sexually active adults at some point. We discuss some great insights and take aways that you can incorporate into your lifestyle or vanilla experiences.   This episode is sponsored by Pineapple Life, the premier “next level” lifestyle social network. Please visit https://pineapple.life for more details and sign up for a free trial to experience the next level for the modern lifestyler.