S1 E7 - Bank Errands and Xanax in the Bathtub

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Phoenix, Bitch!

Amy Jetel and Misael Flores

9 episodes

2 days ago

We're two survivors with questionable coping mechanisms who turned trauma into a podcast because therapy alone wasn't enough. We're here to vent, overshare, call out toxic nonsense, and laugh through the darkness. But we're not just telling our story; we're showing you the receipts. We expose narcissistic abuse through actual texts, voice recordings, and videos: the evidence they never thought we'd share. This podcast is for anyone who's clawed or is clawing their way out of narcissistic abuse, emotional manipulation, or the kind of relationship that burns you down from the inside out. We talk real, we talk raw, we talk 90% in F bombs. So get ready, because rising isn't always graceful, but it is powerful. This is our rebirth, our reckoning, and our reminder that we don't just survive. We rise from the flames. Trigger warning! We'll be discussing sensitive topics in this podcast. We're here to validate, not treat. Please seek professional help if you need it.

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S1 E7 - Bank Errands and Xanax in the Bathtub

Phoenix, Bitch!

1 hour 32 minutes

1 week ago

S1 E7 - Bank Errands and Xanax in the Bathtub

"The Insurance Check Showdown & Suicide Theater"

This episode covers late September 2023, as Amy desperately tries to retrieve her client files while Gary weaponizes them as leverage. A $48,000 insurance check for Gary's "missing" Rolex requires both signatures—his fraud attempt becomes Amy's tool to demand $15,000 of her stolen money back. With only $1,000 left in her accounts while Gary controls $120,000+ of her earnings, Amy is in a financial pressure cooker. Through recorded phone calls, Amy exposes Gary's tactics: admitting files are leverage then denying it, demanding empathy while showing none, and revealing it's all about "winning vs. losing." After days of text warfare where Gary reveals his "CB" (cunt bitch) ranking system and threatens to burn irreplaceable client wills, they meet at Prosperity Bank. The simple transaction explodes when Gary screams "you're an IV meth addict" across the lobby—Amy hits him; both get banned. Gary then stages an elaborate suicide: 40 2mg Xanax bars in the bathtub, demanding Amy hold his head underwater while a "scheduled email" sends her passwords and access to financial accounts. Amy considers it, refuses, and flees with his laptop and phone as he goes face-down in the water. He survives, camps outside her mom's house at 3am, and pounds on the door at 7am—furious she didn't let him die.

Phoenix, B*tch.

Suggested Resources for Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Recovery

Guidance & Education from Therapists and Mental Health Professionals

● Dr. Ramani https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani

● Surviving Narcissim https://www.youtube.com/@SurvivingNarcissism

● Prof. Sam Vaknin https://www.youtube.com/@samvaknin

Narcissistic Abuse Educators and Recovery Coaches

● Synful_ https://www.youtube.com/@ResilientAF

● Love and Abuse https://www.youtube.com/@LoveandAbuse

● Understanding Narcissim https://www.youtube.com/@Understandingnarcissism

● The Virtual Couch https://www.youtube.com/@TheVirtualCouchPodcast

● Claire Auden https://www.youtube.com/@claireauden

Content from “Self Aware Narcissists”

● Mental Healness https://www.youtube.com/@MentalHealness

● Raw Motivations https://www.youtube.com/@RawMotivations

● The Bat Wolf https://www.youtube.com/@The_Bat_Wolf