I've been on a solitude journey. I've been trying to break down the ideas and images of myself that don't belong to me that I have been accepting as my identity. I do not have to be who my family, friends, coworkers, and even ex significant others believe I should be. I am discovering my true identity in Christ, my God given authority to make the most out of my life, and utilizing the gifts that God has given me to enhance my quality of life and that of my family!