Paul shares a personal story that begins on a kindergarten playground and ends with one of the most important lessons in leadership: popularity fades, but respect endures. Discover how self-doubt quietly destroys potential, and how true confidence helps you lead—even when others don’t like it. Check out our show sponsors: Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/ The Guardian App - https://www.wiledr.org/guardian/ Text your comment Extra Duty SolutionsStruggling with the a...

Paul Butler takes us on a wild nine-day journey across the U.S.—from Kansas City to Colorado to New Mexico—filled with delays, detours, and leadership insights. In this episode, he breaks down the difference between being a control freak and being someone others can count on. Through humor, heart, and a few close calls, Paul makes a compelling case for why dependability is the true mark of greatness. Check out our show sponsors: Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/ Th...

What happens when your schedule collides with an unexpected test of character? Paul Butler recounts the moment he had to choose between catching a flight or helping a stranger—and the lesson he learned about what really belongs in life’s “three rings.” With stories from his travels and wisdom from mentors, Paul challenges us to rethink what we value most. This episode will leave you reflecting on your faith, your family, and how you serve others. Check out our show sponsors: Extra Duty Solut...

Are you so focused on where you're going that you're missing where you are? Paul dives into the importance of “being where your feet are” in leadership, parenting, and life. With humor, honesty, and heart, he challenges us to slow down and make the most of the present. Check out our show sponsors: Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/ The Guardian App - https://www.wiledr.org/guardian/ Text your comment Extra Duty SolutionsStruggling with the administration of your ext...

In this deeply personal episode, Paul Butler reflects on lessons on love, leadership, and work ethic. He explores the difference between parenting and grandparenting, and why your actions matter more than your advice. Whether you're a parent, boss, or teammate, this episode will make you think about the legacy you're leaving. It’s a heartfelt reminder that leadership begins long before you ever get the title. Check out our show sponsors: Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/...

What do you do when the person causing the most stress at work is your boss? In this eye-opening episode, Paul Butler flips the script on leadership and explores how to “lead up the chain.” Through real stories and hard-earned wisdom, Paul shares how to influence difficult leaders, create meaningful partnerships, and grow your own leadership without a title. If you've ever felt stuck under bad management—this one’s for you. Check out our show sponsors: Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradut...

Paul Butler delivers one of his most passionate calls to action yet: stop hesitating and start living. Through hilarious and heartfelt storytelling, he explores the difference between being alive and truly living—with help from a crocodile-catching veterinarian, a wise mother, and a few unforgettable life lessons. Whether it’s your career, your relationships, or your purpose—you’ll walk away from this episode ready to say yes to life. Check out our show sponsor: Extra Duty Solutions - https:...

In this heart-wrenching and unforgettable episode, Paul Butler recounts his powerful connection with Officer Heather Glenn and the small town of Tell City, Indiana. What began as a simple visit turned into a life-altering moment—one marked by purpose, grief, and the lasting power of human connection. Paul shares how a 48-hour friendship revealed the depths of love, faith, and legacy. This episode is a tribute to those we lose too soon, and a reminder to never underestimate the difference one ...

Being a great leader and a great parent have one thing in common: loyalty when it counts most. In this episode, Paul Butler shares a powerful story that shows how your quiet consistency can be your loudest message. Discover how to lead your children through example, not just instruction. If you're seeking a deeper, more meaningful relationship with your kids, this is the episode you can't afford to miss. Check out our show sponsor: Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/ Helpi...

In this unforgettable episode, Paul Butler returns to his high school alma mater—Aynor High—for a powerful full-circle moment. Speaking on the same stage he once graduated from, Paul shares heartfelt stories, life lessons, and a message of hope and purpose for students—and for anyone who’s ever felt labeled, overlooked, or misunderstood. This talk may have been given to teens, but its wisdom resonates with all of us. Tune in for a deeply personal and universally inspiring message about going ...

Do you ever worry that you're giving too much—or not enough—to your adult children? In this powerful conversation, Paul Butler shares personal stories and deep reflections that challenge conventional parenting wisdom. Discover how to support without enabling, love without controlling, and connect without conflict. This episode is for every parent seeking a deeper, lifelong bond with their children. Check out our show sponsor: Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/ Helping1stR...

For most, that voice is a negative one — telling them they’re not good enough. But what if you could change that? In this episode, we dive into the power of self-talk, the impact of a strong support system, and the difference between those who rise to challenges and those who hold themselves back. Check out our show sponsors: Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/ Helping1stResponders.com - http://helping1stresponders.com/ Text your comment Extra Duty SolutionsStruggling wit...

Are you hiring for skills, diversity, or something bigger? In this powerful episode, Paul Butler explains why focusing solely on resumes or DEI initiatives can hold organizations back. He offers a fresh perspective on hiring for vision, character, and commitment to the mission. Tune in to discover the secret to building a team that doesn’t just work—but thrives. Check out our show sponsors: Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/ Helping1stResponders.com - http://helping1stre...

Discover why being "nice" isn’t always what people need—and how choosing kindness can transform relationships, careers, and communities. This episode dives into the subtle yet powerful difference between being nice (avoiding conflict) and being kind (having the courage to be honest). Learn how to build trust, earn respect, and create meaningful impact by embracing kindness in your interactions. Don’t miss this life-changing perspective that will challenge the way you approach personal and pro...

Your relationships deserve more than just surviving—they should thrive. In this episode, explore the dynamics of change and growth within families and marriages. Paul Butler offers wisdom on maintaining closeness, even as life pulls everyone in different directions. Hear practical tips on making meaningful connections with your children, sustaining love in marriage, and creating a vision for your relationships.Check out our show sponsors:Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/H...

Discover how two simple traits—Attitude and Work Ethic—can dramatically improve your professional success and personal fulfillment. In this episode, Paul Butler dives into why these traits matter more than ever and how mastering them can set you apart in any workplace. Don’t miss this life-changing conversation that could redefine your approach to work and life.Check out our show sponsors:Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/Helping1stResponders.com - http://helping1strespond...

Great leaders do more than manage; they inspire progress and turn vision into action. In this episode, Paul tackles the challenges of breaking free from outdated thinking and seizing opportunities for growth. Learn how to cultivate an environment where ideas thrive, teams excel, and goals are achieved. Don’t miss these insights into unlocking your leadership potential.Check out our show sponsors:Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/Helping1stResponders.com - http://help...

Paul Butler uncovers an often-overlooked truth in law enforcement: not all lawbreakers are criminals. Paul reveals why this distinction is vital and how it can impact the way officers interact with the public. Join Paul as he outlines how treating these groups accordingly could make a lasting impact.Check out our show sponsors:Extra Duty Solutions - https://extradutysolutions.com/GoLawEnforcement.com - https://golawenforcement.com/job-openings/Helping1stResponders.com - http://helping1strespo...

How often do you make people around you feel genuinely appreciated? Paul reveals why so many of us struggle to express appreciation—and how this simple act can transform your relationships and leadership. By breaking through the fear of discomfort, you’ll discover how to use authentic compliments to inspire and motivate others. Listen to this episode and learn how mastering appreciation can unlock the full potential of those around you—and boost your own success in the process.Check out our s...

A missed opportunity for leadership and connection is revealed when a missed flight becomes more than just an inconvenience in this inaugural episode of 'Paul Butler Leadership for a Lifetime.' When a college student calls her father for help, his response is filled with blame instead of guidance. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation on how moments of crisis can either strengthen relationships or drive people apart. Check out our show sponsors:Extra Duty Solutions - https://extr...