Women don't be deceived, take good care of yourself especially your body. Don't tell yourself my husband is going nowhere. Failure to play your part as it should be will be introducing strange woman into the life of your husband. You have no one to blame but yourself, especially if the man is not a child of God. Remember even the child of God is no saint to this issue. Clean up yourself, look nice and be innovative to help your marriage. You cannot appear looking like his mother or be address as one, it means you are writing a letter to trouble. He will refuse to go out with his mother and look for who will fit in as his wife, be warned.