Kevin Spicer, a high school teacher on Vancouver Island, discusses his book "Anchored Teens." Kevin emphasizes the importance of helping teens develop an internal locus of control, resilience, and grit. He notes a decline in teens' self-reliance and confidence, exacerbated by over-scheduling and technology addiction. Kevin advocates for clear standards, consistent consequences, and fostering responsibility. He shares practical strategies, such as setting boundaries, encouraging effort over talent, and using sports to build resilience. The book aims to facilitate dialogues between parents and teens, promoting emotional and social health.
I love his quote: "Ability gets us in the room; effort keeps us in the room."
