In this episode of the Over The Bridge Podcast, hosts Bilal, Patrick, and guest Kalil reconnect to discuss various aspects of male friendships. They delve into the dynamics of their relationships, reflecting on how life changes have affected their bonds. The conversation covers topics such as the importance of intentionality in maintaining friendships, the challenges of making new friends as men get older, and the need for accountability and honesty. The episode also highlights personal anecdotes, revealing how their friendships have evolved over time and ends on a note of appreciation, sharing what they admire about each other. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:51 Catch-Up with Patrick 02:09 Welcoming Khalil 02:26 Fatherhood Updates 03:59 The Nature of Male Friendships 07:09 Challenges of Making New Friends 13:16 Intentional Friendships in Adulthood 27:24 Navigating Male Friendships 27:43 Drifting Apart Naturally 29:10 Accountability in Friendships 30:21 Calling Out Unacceptable Behavior 34:45 Superficial vs. Deep Friendships 36:22 The Importance of Vulnerability 45:36 Expressing Pride and Gratitude 56:34 Concluding Thoughts on Male Friendships