In this episode, Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski tackle a tough choice many people face—especially under manipulation—deciding whether you want to be liked or respected. They explain why this binary decision can be a trap, particularly for “pathos” personalities who lead with emotion, and how manipulators exploit that vulnerability. Using insights from ethos–pathos–logos communication styles, they break down the risks of prioritizing likability in professional settings, how emotional dominance can cloud judgment, and strategies to protect yourself in real-time. The conversation emphasizes practical ways to maintain credibility, assert boundaries, and avoid falling into the manipulator’s game.   Topics 01:27 The Binary Choice: Respect vs. Being Liked 02:13 Understanding Ethos, Pathos, and Logos 03:38 Manipulation in Professional Settings 07:45 The Manipulator's Tactics 14:19 Changing Your Mindset 17:29 Understanding the Manipulator's Intentions 17:54 Identifying Traits of Respectable People 18:39 Self-Reflection and Personal Boundaries 20:17 Observing Manipulation in Others 21:04 The Cult Analogy: Pathos and Ethos 22:43 The Subtle Erosion of Self 23:40 Reacting to Manipulation in the Workplace 25:32 Invitation for Real-Life Scenarios 28:16 Building Personal Power and Respect 29:56 Final Thoughts and Contact Information