You're not alone in holding impossible questions as a TFMR parent. If you’ve lost a baby to termination for medical reasons and ever found yourself yourself pacing your house asking "am I a monster?" or lying awake wondering "does anyone actually understand?" then this episode is for you.
In this episode, I share why these questions can't be answered in isolation and where to find the community that understands why you're asking them in the first place:
“Will my baby suffer?”
”Am I a monster?”
”How do I survive?”
”Does anyone understand?”
…the questions that haunt TFMR moms and dads.
Because the crux of TFMR grief isn't just losing your baby - it's carrying questions so profound that only other parents who've made this impossible choice can truly hold them with you.
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Music credit:
Pamgaea by Kevin MacLeod
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