Ono (⁠⁠⁠@TheOnoZone⁠⁠⁠) talks to Julia Rios of the chessfeels podcast about Chess Psychology, Chess Culture + Why Losing Hurts (so much), and more. On this episode: (01:18) What Julia loves most about chess (03:50) What Ono loves most about chess (04:32) How your psyche influences your chess (07:36) Julia’s chess style + personality (10:26) Chessfeels on Ono’s openings + sex life (11:16) Why honesty is key in chess improvement (13:06) Julia’s update since chessfeels season 2 (16:05) Why Julia’s playing (hyper)bullet now (18:33) If Julia feels social chess pressure (21:52) Julia's funny Twitter (22:59) How the chess community hooked Julia (23:40) Julia on being a woman in chess (26:06) The #1 priority to change chess culture (28:31) Why Julia never joined a chess club (32:45) Why speaking up is important (35:01) Why chess losses hurt so much (40:03) How we can respond better to losses (43:37) Chessfeels pregnancy + Ben admiration Come talk with Julia + Ono in the Zoom Hangout on Thursday, November 2nd @1800 UTC! Sign up to ⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/TheOnoZone⁠⁠⁠ to get the Zoom link (free 7-day trial). More info: It's Not You, It's Chess (TheOnoZone Blog) https://lichess.org/@/TheOnoZone/blog/its-not-chess-its-you/hYGoISXk chessfeels podcast episode 'what your chess opening says about your sex life' https://chessfeels.transistor.fm/episodes/episode-8-what-your-opening-repertoire-says-about-your-sex-life-with-nm-gopal-menon How To Be A Man In Chess (TheOnoZone Blog) https://www.theonozone.com/how-to-be-a-man-in-chess Ono Another Chess Podcast #1 Chris Callahan https://www.theonozone.com/1 Follow Julia Rios: Julia Rios Twitter @juliaxrios | chessfeels podcast Twitter @chessfeelspod | chessfeels podcast episodes https://chessfeels.transistor.fm/ Follow TheOnoZone: Patreon ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/TheOnoZone⁠⁠⁠⁠ | Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠@TheOnoZone⁠⁠⁠⁠ | Lichess ⁠⁠⁠⁠@TheOnoZone⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠info@theonozone.com⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠www.theonozone.com⁠⁠⁠ On the ⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠, you can download a free ⁠⁠⁠Study Plan Template⁠⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠⁠Wordy Chess Book List⁠⁠⁠, find out more about Ono's ⁠⁠⁠Adult Improver chess coaching⁠⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠⁠book a free trial lesson with Ono⁠⁠⁠. Thanks to ⁠⁠⁠TheOnoZone Patrons⁠⁠⁠ who supported this episode: Laura Holmes | Marcus Buffett | Dan Bock | Dawn Lawson | Glen G | Mikey Wells | Michael Shpizner | Michael G | Karen W | Gregory C | BowiE | Stefan K | Ché Martin | Andrew M | Ben Johnson Thanks to Julia Rios for coming on the podcast + the fun after-chat + editing the interview, my wife Yara for being the other half of TheOnoZone, Ché Martin for creating the legendary intro, and Zach Shpizner for applying his audio engineering skills to this episode. Make sure to follow Ono Another Chess Podcast on your favourite podcast app + give us a 5-star rating if you like it. Thanks for listening!