Forgiveness is one of the most difficult commands Jesus ever gave—and one of the most freeing. Yet, many of us carry deep pain caused by others’ betrayal, lies, or abuse. Forgiveness sounds great until it’s our wound that needs healing. Jesus challenges our assumptions and excuses about forgiveness. He never said, “You don’t need to forgive them.” In fact, He taught that forgiveness is not optional—it’s essential for our own freedom. So how do we forgive the unforgivable? And why would God ask us to?

THE BIG IDEA: Forgiveness for those who hurt you may not change them, but it always changes you.