Our desire to build a lifelong healthy relationship with one another is central to that journey, so, when a friend of mine responded to my recent offer to prepare one of his favorite foods with the text message  “Acts of Service”, not only did I know I had a fan of Gary Chapman’s Book “The 5 Love Languages”, on my hands , it got me thinking about the book, which I had read in 2017 and remembered discussing with Jess shortly after we met. I mentioned to Jess that we should read it again see how the modern versions of ourselves measured up, she quickly agreed and we did just that. We read the book and took the Love Language Quizzes included at the end of the book and compared results