I will always stress the point that human beings are born as natural learners #itsjustfacts. We are what we are, do what we do, know what we know because we learnt… inherently and otherwise. Whether we learn or not is a function of our ‘willingness’ to learn the things we ‘don’t want to’ or think ‘they can never be learnt’. It is also a function of the value we perceive the learning will bring. Is it worth the trouble? Are you willing to lose something in exchange of the new knowledge i.e. comfort zone, time, pride, social status? money? It is also a function of who we are learning for? Yourself? Your job? Your partner? Society? You can learn to learn. You can unlearn what you’ve learnt. Where there’s learning there is change. You may be the way you are but you are not cast in stone. If you continue to say ‘that is how you are’, if you continue to hold on to what you know, what seems popular and accepted, if you keep saying what you dont know wont kill you or that some things are reserved for certain things to know, have or be… you are simply communicating that you are not willing to learn regardless of the price you have to pay for not learning/unlearning.