Hello, hello! This is the pilot episode of the new series, "note on"! This series focuses more on topics that concern the average eldest daughter: setting boundaries, cultural expectations, mental health, friendships and dating, and finding your voice beyond family duty, among many other topics! The series is more in-depth, exploring my own personal journeys with these topics, some journal prompts I utilized to work through the tough moments, as well as practical tips and reminders to help fellow eldest daughters (and anyone else tuning in). "note on" is a project that I hold close to my heart and I hope you're able to take something away from it, even if it's just one piece of the puzzle we call life!
Chapters:
2:02 - Personal journey with ‘saying no’
5:13 - Psychology of ‘saying no’ + quiz
7:53 - Journal prompts to saying no
8:54 - Tips and reminders for “saying no”
11:27 - Personal journey with boundaries + quiz
19:38 - Psychology of ‘boundaries’
20:44: the eldest daughter relationship with and to boundaries
26:22 - Journal prompts for determining, establishing, and maintaining boundaries
29:58 - Tips and reminders for setting, establishing, and maintaining boundaries
33:44 - challenge of the week
34:21 - Outro
Papers cited:
Overall, N. C., & McNulty, J. K. (2017). What type of communication during conflict is beneficial for intimate relationships? Current Opinion in Psychology, 13, 1–5. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.copsyc.2016.03.002
Donald, J. N., Ciarrochi, J., Parker, P. D., Sahdra, B. K., Marshall, S. L., & Guo, J. (2018). A worthy self is a caring self: Examining the developmental relations between self-esteem and self-compassion in adolescents. Journal of Personality, 86, 619–630. https://psycnet.apa.org/doi/10.1111/jopy.12340
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