You know that voice that whispers, “I’ll start when I’m ready”? Yeah, she’s a liar.

In this episode, I’m calling out the myth that confidence has to come before action. Because it doesn’t. Confidence is built through action, not before it. I’m breaking down why so many women wait to “feel qualified enough,” how that quiet perfectionism keeps you stuck, and why messy, imperfect movement is actually your fastest path to clarity.

I also share the real research behind the so-called “confidence gap” between men and women, plus what’s really happening when we keep buying more courses instead of just starting. Spoiler: it’s not lack of skill, it’s lack of clarity.

If you’ve ever delayed launching your offer, posting online, or raising your prices because you didn’t feel ready, this episode is your wake-up call.

Let’s talk about how to stop overthinking, start moving, and build the kind of confidence that actually lasts.

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