You ever catch yourself trying to control everything? Your kids’ moods, your business growth, the damn algorithm? Same.
In this episode, I dive into Stephen Covey’s concept of the Circle of Influence and the Circle of Concern, and how it’s completely reshaped the way I show up as a mom, entrepreneur, and human.
I talk about the six areas where we think we have control but really don’t, how to stop wasting energy on things that drain you, and how focusing on what’s actually in your circle of influence can help you feel calmer, clearer, and more confident.
I share real stories from my own castle life, motherhood chaos, and business messiness, all to show you that control isn’t the goal. Clarity is.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, reactive, or guilty for not doing enough, this conversation will help you refocus your energy on what truly matters so you can lead your business and your life with more peace and purpose.
Tune in, breathe out, and let’s get clear on what’s really yours to influence.
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The prompt I’m referring to in this episode and that you can use in your own AI tool:
Can you explain to me in a short, and clear manner what Covey’s Circles of Concern and Influence are. After that, can you tell me 4 or 5 points where in my life I act as if that area is in my Circle of Influence, while in reality it’s actually in my Circle of Concern? For each area you find, can you also tell me how I can grow and improve this?
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