Not so Christian Brothers
An authentic look at modern masculinity from two brothers from different generations. They share insights on fatherhood, brotherhood, and everything in between.
It's presented by veteran broadcaster Colm Hayes who's voice is instantly recognizable from his years in FM104, RTE and presently Ireland's Classic Hits radio and his brother Justin Caffrey , a well renowned high-performance coach and entrepreneur.
With years of experience between them and stories you've probably never heard before, you may want to get involved.
These guys don't mess around, it's funny, informative, current, sensitive and ball-breaking all at the same time.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Not so Christian Brothers
An authentic look at modern masculinity from two brothers from different generations. They share insights on fatherhood, brotherhood, and everything in between.
It's presented by veteran broadcaster Colm Hayes who's voice is instantly recognizable from his years in FM104, RTE and presently Ireland's Classic Hits radio and his brother Justin Caffrey , a well renowned high-performance coach and entrepreneur.
With years of experience between them and stories you've probably never heard before, you may want to get involved.
These guys don't mess around, it's funny, informative, current, sensitive and ball-breaking all at the same time.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all wake up at 3 a.m. sometimes — heart racing, thoughts racing faster.
In this week’s episode of Not So Christian Brothers, Justin and Colm tackle the 3 a.m. spiral head-on.
Colm talks about what happens when your mind won’t stop running imaginary arguments and worst-case scenarios. Justin explains why the brain does this — from primitive wiring to stress hormones — and how to interrupt the loop with a proven paper-and-pen trick that calms the nervous system.
Rebecca joins the brothers to ask the questions everyone’s thinking: are intrusive thoughts ever useful, and why do we keep feeding them with our screens?
It’s an honest, funny, and surprisingly comforting listen for anyone who’s ever stared at the ceiling wondering why can’t I just stop thinking?
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00:00 – Irish politics, PR fails & Sharon Stone’s tweet
03:30 – Intrusive thoughts: why we overthink at night
06:40 – The 3:28 a.m. wake-up and anxiety loops
10:00 – Naming your inner critic and calming the noise
14:00 – When overthinking turns into rumination
17:00 – Doom-scrolling, dark TV, and anxiety triggers
20:00 – How what you consume affects your sleep
24:00 – The myth of constant happiness
27:00 – Journaling, reflection, and tracking your progress
32:00 – Therapy stories & finding humour in the process
34:30 – Closing thoughts: small daily tools for calmer minds
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