Not so Christian Brothers
An authentic look at modern masculinity from two brothers from different generations. They share insights on fatherhood, brotherhood, and everything in between.
It's presented by veteran broadcaster Colm Hayes who's voice is instantly recognizable from his years in FM104, RTE and presently Ireland's Classic Hits radio and his brother Justin Caffrey , a well renowned high-performance coach and entrepreneur.
With years of experience between them and stories you've probably never heard before, you may want to get involved.
These guys don't mess around, it's funny, informative, current, sensitive and ball-breaking all at the same time.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Not so Christian Brothers
An authentic look at modern masculinity from two brothers from different generations. They share insights on fatherhood, brotherhood, and everything in between.
It's presented by veteran broadcaster Colm Hayes who's voice is instantly recognizable from his years in FM104, RTE and presently Ireland's Classic Hits radio and his brother Justin Caffrey , a well renowned high-performance coach and entrepreneur.
With years of experience between them and stories you've probably never heard before, you may want to get involved.
These guys don't mess around, it's funny, informative, current, sensitive and ball-breaking all at the same time.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This one hits hard.
In this week’s Aftershow, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan — drop the jokes (mostly) and dive into the emotional minefield of family, childhood, and guilt.
Justin remembers being left behind in a house that didn’t feel safe, watching Colm build a snowman through the window.
Colm swears he doesn’t remember doing it — and Rebecca isn’t letting him off the hook.
What starts as a nostalgic story becomes a brutally honest conversation about survival, neglect, loneliness, and why Irish families never really talk about love — just guilt.
It’s raw, revealing, and somehow still hilarious.
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🗓 This episode: Sunday, 2 November 2025.
Ever carried guilt from your childhood? Or blamed your brother for turning you into who you are?
Colm and Justin open old wounds (and old snowmen), with Rebecca playing referee.
It’s part therapy, part sibling rivalry, and 100% Not So Christian.
00:00 – Welcome & the “Snowman Story”
02:00 – Childhood memories vs selective amnesia
04:00 – Guilt, leaving home & who got left behind
06:00 – Rebecca calls out Irish emotional repression
08:00 – Sibling rivalry & the fight to be seen
10:00 – Family dysfunction, loneliness & love
12:00 – The red-pen parents & emotional grammar lessons
13:00 – Wrap-up, chaos & next week’s tease
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